Radar:
red
yellow
green.
Watching
weather
change.
Two
severe
storms
back-to-back.
Checking,
Water
Snacks
Flashlights
Batteries
Notebook
Blankets
Chargers
Candles
Matches.
Meteorologists
talk
with
heightened
voices,
serious
tone.
Listen.
Watch.
Wait.
Radar:
red
yellow
green.
Watching
weather
change.
Two
severe
storms
back-to-back.
Checking,
Water
Snacks
Flashlights
Batteries
Notebook
Blankets
Chargers
Candles
Matches.
Meteorologists
talk
with
heightened
voices,
serious
tone.
Listen.
Watch.
Wait.
8:40 a.m., shoes on.
Out the door
the cold air hits hard.
Sun in my eyes
and frost on the windshield.
The glare is just bearable.
Fifteen minutes later
I'm pulling on the wrong door.
Trying the other one,
chimes ring
and I step inside.
It feels fresh.
Succulents and snake plants
accompany the lamps
with natural fabrics
and plush seats for my wait.
I can hear a conversation.
But can't piece it together.
Sounds like "work talk"
A few minutes pass
The owner walks out.
"Let's get you two checked in!"
The woman next to me gives her thanks.
I smile.
Within minutes I'm in the chair
My hair is being sectioned
and clipped.
It doesn't take long
and my shoulders drop.
Relaxation mode, on.
A crack of light
peeks through the door frame.
I wonder,
What time is it?
5:00 am, ugh.
Then I hear a muffled noise.
Sitting up, I listen harder.
As if thinking about the silence
makes it louder.
Silence has no volume control.
I hear the noise again.
Did someone say...mom?
Much like spidey-sense, my mom-dar is up.
I hear it again.
That's it. I'm up.
Quietly I step toward the kids' rooms.
I listen right, then left.
Arie, are you calling out?
You could hear me?
I just don't feel good.
Arie sighs into a gurgly moan.
Does something hurt?
My head aches.
My throat is dry.
My nose burns.
Hmmm, thermometer time.
100.2 not a true fever
but true enough
to change our plans.
I'm thinking
about cleaning.
Make a list?
Just start?
Sitting here, looking around.
I see an art project in progress,
Laundry half sorted,
An animal cage in need of attention,
Clutter on my desk,
and dust under the tv.
Empty drink containers wait,
and games go unplayed.
This room is a catch-all.
A family room of sorts
Where we all seem to find ourselves
and leave traces behind.
It will wait
I'll start tomorrow
After coffee,
maybe a bite
I'll make a plan
go one by one
delegate here
do it myself, there
eventually, lighting a candle
and enjoying the order.
Today was a 25-mile-per-hour kind of day.
Not too fast and not too slow.
A few errands close to home.
Rain and snow, wind and sleet.
A day to spend indoors.
I got up early.
Made a big lunch.
Then napped nearly all afternoon.
Movie with the family,
Take-out for dinner,
A 25-mile-per-hour day.
Slow, steady, and just right.
We got rain, snow, and wind today.
This past week has been busy and stressful. I've been doing the bare minimum regarding the challenge and told myself that my idea for 24 would be to comment on 24 posts today. It is my first day of spring break, and I am ready. I also knew I would have the time and mental space to read more today.
As I traveled through posts today, I read about spring break plans, signs of spring, and color invitations. Teachers shared fun classroom moments or connections they had with students and colleagues. I was finding myself making lists of things I wanted to do during my spring break, like reading, visiting the bookstore, and taking lots of walks. I also want to do some more poem slices now that we are in the twenties of the challenge. I noticed several poems today as I read.
Now that I met my goal of 24 comments, I might surpass it. Why not!
Today I finished conferences for my 22nd year of teaching. I will have other parent meetings before the end of the year, but spring conferences are a wrap.
Conferences have gotten so much easier to manage over the years. In particular, being a middle school teacher, conferences are entirely different experiences. Elementary conferences are lengthy, involved, and in-depth. Middle school conferences are content-specific, to the point, and short.
Granted, I have many more students to sift through, but focusing solely on ELA is so helpful at this point in my career. I love the age group and am so glad I've made grade-level changes and learned from each one. Twenty-two years of teaching are almost in the books, and it's been an excellent year for me as a teacher.
Some
days
don't
want
to
follow
the
norm.
They
are
remarkable.
No
thank
you.
I'd
like
a
mundane
day
tomorrow,
please.
The Hubbard house has 20 legs worth of pets, and we love it.
During the pandemic, we needed joy, like many families. We got a dog. Getting a dog when you cannot socialize or properly train may not be a great decision. However, we all made it through, and Cassie, in many ways, saved us.
Right before I started outside to begin documenting, I realized I had not gone for my annual outing in search of snowdrops. I write about the snowdrops every March. Small white flowers peek out of the ground each early spring. They grow in bunches and sprawl over an area. When they appear, snow has typically just melted or might even still be around.
I took several pictures on my way to the snowdrops. Hoping I was still in time. See, we have had several thaws already and multiple sunny days too. I wondered if the window of snowdrops had passed.
It did.
I took a picture of one that I saw. There were only a few still hanging on in the cold. I was disappointed to not see them in full bloom, but it was still a fun little walk through some signs of spring. Here are six signs I saw today.
Today has been a big cleaning day. We've been organizing my youngest bedroom. The desk emerged from piles of crafts, makeup, and hair accessories. I made a list and said, "when this is done, call me back in here." Some things need a mom, and some things don't.
Arie called me back once several items were sorted and trash was trashed. It was time to decide what was next. I decided soapy water was needed and that the jewelry pile was a good next step while I washed the desktop.
One more step down, the next one on the way.
"Okay, things are looking good! Should we tackle makeup and hair next?"
Arie agreed and chose makeup since there was a whole lot more of that to deal with, and I probably would have trashed important items.
I took on hair accessories and, while I did, took a trip down memory lane.
When I was growing up in the eighties, hair scrunchies came in every color, texture, and size. You had the fuzzy ones in bright neon. There were patterned and bold styles. Then you had the basic blacks, browns, and neutrals. As I sorted items into containers, I realized Arie had eighteen scrunchies. Isn't it crazy how trends resurface?
Among the scrunchies were around six hair ties, some hair spray, a few brushes, and combs, as well as a flat iron and its plates. Again, blasts from the past. Arie has worn the crimped hair look a few times, but organizing these eighties-era hair accessories took me back.
As a seventh grader
I was inexperienced
with the experience
of grief.
I watched you,
my Maw Maw
change.
You were brash, while lovingly kind.
Someone who skipped in parking lots
while smiling in the sunlight,
your hand holding mine.
The pastor said,
in life, you were "full of piss and vinegar."
And even at the age of twelve
I knew this was meant to be a compliment.
It was 33 years ago today
we said our goodbyes.
As my kids have grown older, their music tastes have evolved in many directions. Arie, our youngest (soon to be 16), started listening to Taylor last year. I'd say Arie is definitely a *Swifty at this point. Among other music choices, Arie loves to blast and belt along with songs while in the shower. It's always a treat, as long as you don't plan on listening to anything else.
Taylor Swift's music has changed so much over the years, and you might be wondering, how does this relate to the number fifteen? Well, a few things happened today, both good and bad.
School today has some high highs and some low lows. It was a stressful one. I was glad to end the day and get home for a bit.
On one of my three trips back and forth to school today, I saw not one but two robins! I was elated-my son was a witness to my enthusiasm.
None of the day's events led to fifteen in any way thought. So, I thought, what happens if I Google "Fifteen?" Well, I'll tell you. You get inundated with Taylor Swift images, songs, videos, articles, and all things Swift!
Thanks for writing a song titled "Fifteen," Taylor.
*A Swifty is a Taylor Swift fan.
I have sat down at my computer for twelve years in a row to write a post for the March SOLSC. It's sometimes been a different computer. It hasn't always been the same place. Looking back, it hasn't always been the same blog space. Several things remain the same. The accomplishment I feel after writing even a simple slice-of-life post feels good. Taking the time to stop, think, put words down, post, and read makes my brain feel full. Slicing has helped me process difficult times, reminisce, and notice the simplest of things.
Spring is my favorite season, and I love that the first day of spring falls in the month of slicing. Each day is an invitation to learn, write, and reflect. While the season changes outside my window, I change for the better. Birds sing, and buds burst, all things I look forward to. Fresh changes and fresh air are everywhere in March. I hope you find the same fresh and reflective versions of yourself as you write each day.
Here's to twelve times strong and going!
When we first walked into the apartment, I didn't know what I was expecting, but I got completely overwhelmed and bawled my eyes out. The space was so small, and it all finally hit me. This is where we'd be living.
It all worked out, and that little apartment with no storage and barely any walking space became home. We lived in the apartment for four years. I remember feeling like it was boot camp for our relationship. If we could survive year-round school in a tiny apartment together for four years, we could likely get through anything. That has proved to be true.
On our 20th anniversary in 2016, we returned to take our picture in front of the door. We heard they would soon tear down the old buildings, and we wanted to take one last look. I'm glad we did. One last memory at good old B-11.
I knew I'd hit a wall at some point. A day would come when I would not see the number (ninth day of March) showing up in my regular sightings, wonderings, or thoughts. So far, this number focus for my slices has worked great. Each day I've easily found a way the quantity was represented by something small in my day. Today, however, I've been stuck. Searching. I thought of a few ideas.
I could go outside and throw the frisbee to my dog nine times before the snow starts. The temps are good now, and I should get her running around before the wintery mix takes hold. Then I got lost in the moment, threw the frisbee a lot, kicked a ball, ran circles, and forgot all about the number nine.
Then I thought, I might have nine everyday items sitting around somewhere. Like a pile of change, my to-be-read pile, empty water bottles on the counter, or the kid-created paper flowers I have in the vase on our piano. But, nope. None of them totaled nine.
Today's number nine is not present, but lots of other things are! Funny how something not showing up helped me see a few things that were.
It's Taco Tuesday! Who wants toppings and condiments? I know I do!
I love a good taco. I make a variety of meat fillings for my family each week. But, for myself, I usually stick with a lentil-mushroom mixture seasoned with spices. The real stars of the show on a taco night are the toppings. I never dare disappoint.
We have saucier toppings like salsa and taco sauce. Then the creamy and cheesy toppings (non-dairy
for me). Last, I love a crunchy veggie topping. Diced tomato is a stand-alone. Then I mixed iceberg, cilantro, and white onion.
Who else is eating tacos tonight?
I love my drive to and from work. Most of the time, anyway. When the roads are snow-covered or terribly slick, it's another story. However, the other day I was driving home, and along the side of the road, six different chickens were nibbling away at the grassy edge. Since I was driving, I couldn't snap a picture, but they were so pretty. Some of them were all black, some red with lighter tones, and one or two were a light beige or golden.
After driving by, I wondered if they were finding little bugs or worms. We had just thawed out from a nasty ice storm, and everything was soft, muddy, and melty. I hope I see them again in the next few weeks. With slightly warmer temps, they might find some tasty treats as long as they stay off the road!
As I sit down mid-morning, I'm getting ready to plan for the work week. Five days ahead and thinking of my to-do list and all the things that may interrupt the plans.
I start with the forecast. I'm seeing mild temps for all five days, so we won't encounter any snow days. We might even get some extra sunshine! Yay for Vitamin D!
Seriously, the break into sunshine after months of gray is uplifting for this Michigan girl. Every Michigander has low Vitamin D by default just because we live here. And even though I know this and am always deficient, it is a supplement I struggle to take consistently. So when I see partly sunny days are ahead, with temps in the 40-degree range, I welcome it!
Here's to planning a whole week of school and getting extra warmth on my skin!
Another step I've taken to better care for myself started about a year ago. I decided to invest in some good skin care products and set a routine I could stick with each day. My morning skincare regimen has four steps. Whether running behind with my morning responsibilities or not, I have stuck with this four-step routine for many months, and I love it.
Step one: Cleanse the face with a gentle wash like Cetaphil or CeraVe. One of their mild ones without any extra exfoliants or acids.
Step two: Onto my fingertips, I use one dropper full of a vitamin C serum. The one I use is made by La Roche-Possay. It is the most pricey item I use on my face, but it smells fantastic, and my skin loves it!
Step three: After step two is fully dry, I spritz a bit of spring water to dampen my skin again and put on serum number two, Hyaluronic Acid by Good Molecules. This is a very affordable brand and does the job of hydrating. I love it! My skin is so springy afterward.
Step four: My final skincare step is a moisturizer with SPF. My favorite right now is CeraVe Ultra-Lite Moisturizer with SPF 30. It soaks right in, and my face is so happy.
I smile through all these steps. With each layer, I find myself often saying, "I love this."
It's a small part of my day, but I look forward to it each morning. It's one of those ways I can care for myself, feel deserving of something just for me, and have a little reset that gets me ready for the day.
What little routines do you have that make you smile every day?
Last week we had THREE days off of school. An ice storm wiped out power across many counties, water main breaks, downed trees, and slippery roads created massive closures across the state. Today we have a winter storm watch, and I'd like to know if I'll get the text, call, notification, ping, another call, and so on.
To be clear, I love snow days. I will never complain about getting extra time to relax my brain. I won't mind the spare time in my pajamas. There will be no concern over leaving my children alone and not forcing them out of their beds to get ready. I would be thrilled with a day at home, safe and sound, warm and cozy. However, did I mention we missed three days of school last week? I'm finally gaining momentum and hoping we can finish the week strong. Again, won't complain if things go in another direction. Also, I will be fine if I need to pull my kids out of bed, make some lunches, and head out by 6:50 a.m.
*Update: We had school, and less than an hour into class, they announced we would be dismissed early.
Two days.
Two days off of school for my son.
My 17-year-old son has had a rough winter with illness after illness. Today it was low O2 levels, breathing treatments, and figuring out what he can and cannot do. It's his senior year. He is a band kid, and festival is this week. He has a solo, a beautiful solo, in one of the songs. But here we are, trying to decide whether he can participate. Not participating is devastating; so many lasts are here, this final year of high school. And yet, participating might be devastating to him physically if he can't get enough oxygen to play a sound.
So now, it's more than just considering how we get him caught up when high school is so demanding in these final months. It's also, how do we tell him he might miss out? Again.
I got this idea today.
I'm not someone who typically goes with a theme (topic really) for slices across the month, but I had a thought. Just one thought about it.
What if, this month, each slice is connected to a quantity?
Today's slice is connected to the number ONE. The first of March. One singular day down in the month of daily writing. One thought. An idea. A consideration.
Whenever I have tried a common thread connecting all my slices, it's made the writing challenging and very focused.
I like focus.
I like efficiency and cohesion.
I also love creative mess as much as I love structure.
So, here it goes!
Today, I tore one page off my classroom calendar and wrote one phrase inside one box. On March 17, 2023, it will be "Popcorn and Pickle Day." Our most recent Popcorn and Pickle Day was canceled due to school closures from a recent ice storm. I got an email today informing me that my homeroom class would get a popcorn and pickle celebration on St. Patrick's Day. Sometimes the little things like a salty snack on a Friday in the future can put a smile on your face. Although many twelve-year-old faces fell in disappointment that it was SO MANY DAYS away, they were happy to see we would get to look forward to the treat.
One down, TWO tomorrow!
We'll see if I can keep it going. I'm going to be on the lookout for doubles.